Wedding Vows & Readings: 20 Tips for Writing Your Own Wedding Vows

So you thought it'd be great to write your own vows, but now a healthy dose of writer's block (not to mention fear of embarrassing yourself) has hit you squarely on the h

ead. Don't know how to transform your heavy, life-altering, feelings into a string of coherent words? You're not alone -- but don't worry, your goal is within reach: Just take it one word at a time

. Here's the homework you need to do (and the questions you should ask) to make your wedding words letter-perfect.

Prep Step A: Get clearance

Make sure your officiant will accept personalized vows. Catholic and Episcopal congregations, for instance, may require you to recite all or part of the traditional vows, though in most cases that's left to the officiant's discretion. Remember: Even the most accommodating officiant will want to review your words in advance.

Prep Step B: Make a plan

You need to tackle the logistics to make sure you and your fiance are both on the same page: Are you each going to write your own, or will you write them together? Will you show them to each other before the ceremony?

Knot Note: If you're feeling shy, opt to write your vows together and even recite the exact same promises. If there's more you wish to say, privately, say it in the cards you exchange on the day of your wedding or on your honeymoon.

Prep Step C: Create your outline

An outline can help to establish a structure that you both stick to. For example, plan to first talk about how great your fiance is, then about how great you are as a couple, then about what you're vowing to each other.

Prep Step D: Find your voice

What overall tone do you want: Humorous and touching? Poetic and mushy? It's your call -- the most important thing is that your vows ring true and sound like they're from your heart.

Prep Step E: Cut it down

Finally, pick a length and stick to it by keeping the mantra pithy and to the point in mind -- anything longer than a minute or so, and no matter how gorgeous your prose, the audience will start to squirm.

Ready to Write!

What exactly do you say? To help you think of sentiments to include, take turns answering this list of questions. When you're done, look through your answers for the phrases that best capture your intended message and incorporate them into the structure of your vows.

What did you think when you first saw him/her? Start from the beginning -- you didn't want to go out and now you're grateful your friends dragged you out? How to use: When we met at __________, I knew __________.

When did you realize you were in love? The more specific you are able to be, the more touching the story. Was it when he helped you bring your sick puppy to the vet? How to use: I knew I was in love when ____________. Don't underestimate the power of humor. Throw in at least one more playful sentiment (When she recited Don Mattingly's RBI record...).

What do you have now that you didn't have before you met? Focus on the heart and head, not material possessions. Has she taught you to appreciate beauty differently? Has he helped you learn to savor creating a home-cooked meal? How to use: Before I met you, I ___________. Now I ___________.

How has your worldview changed? Life has likely gotten better since the two of you joined forces, so tell everyone about it. How to use: Because of you, I see the world __________. Having trouble? Think about the new things you've tried with your mate -- what have you experienced together that you never would have on your own?

What do you miss most when you're apart? This will probably be something mundane but powerful -- what about his smile first thing in the morning, or the way she puts out your lucky mug for your morning coffee? How to use: You are such a part of me that when you're gone, I __________.

Where do you see yourselves in 10 years? 20 years? 40 years? Go deeper than Happily married in a big house. What are your long-term hopes, dreams, and goals? How to use: I look forward to __________, laughing and __________ as we __________.

Is there a line from a movie, song, or poem that says it all? It's okay to borrow, as long as it's not too much of a cliche (we're sorry, but You complete me is suffering from overuse). Instead modify something familiar to personalize. How to use: Subtly. I watch you ________, and I think to myself, what a wonderful world.

Do parts of the traditional vows resonate with you? Maybe you're not so sure about the obey part, but can you really go wrong with love, cherish, and...? How to use: Try I promise to cherish and honor you ____________, but add a time frame and funny reference for levity: ...all the days of my life, especially when curled up on the couch with takeout.

Can you think of a funny or touching experience that put your partner in a new light? The way he played with your little cousin or helped your grandmother up the stairs showed you that under his macho exterior is a wittle, bitty bunny wabbit and you love him for it. How to use: When you ____________, I saw you for the _____________ person you are. And that made me want to ____________.

Is there a harrowing experience that strengthened your bond? This one rides tandem with #9. How to use: See #9.

What goals and values do you both have? Stating your common bond may just expose your inner Wordsworth. These ties -- whether your shared faith or your mutual love of wine -- will also help demonstrate why you're a perfect pair. How to use: We share ___________, so together we can ___________.

What about him/her inspires you? What is it about your fiance that you'd like to improve in yourself? What do you most respect about your partner? How to use: Your ___________ has shown me how to be___________.

What promise can you make to codify your devotion? Here's an opportunity to personalize your vows -- many couples pledge their endless love, but how many promise to take the dog out in the morning, even in the snow? How to use: I promise to always ___________.

How will you change together? You know what your goals are -- think about the steps the two of you will need to take together to reach them. How to use: I look forward to ___________ as we __________.

What metaphor (or simile) would capture your love? Think of something that describes or defines your love: Is it strong like a castle? Peaceful like a mountain stream? How to use: Our love is like a ___________ because it ___________.

Why are you entering the bond of marriage? Think about why marrying your fiance is so special. You may be surprised how the answer leads you to the perfect words. How to use: To me, marriage is ___________. With you, it's ___________.

What will keep your marriage strong? Find the bedrock of your relationship. What makes your relationship tick? Is it your resilience? Your shared sense of humor? How to use: Even when ___________, we will have ___________.

What are you most looking forward to about married life? The wedding is just the beginning. How to use: I look forward to ___________ as we embark on ___________.

What do you expect out of married life? Defining your expectations will help you make and keep promises. Think about your dreams, and what you'll have to vow to do to make them come true. How to use: I know our marriage will ___________ and I vow to ___________.

What words do you associate with love? Make a list of romantic terms so you can avoid overusing love -- too many repetitions dilute its power. How to use: My devotion/adoration/ passion is ___________.

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cruise honeymoon with special dresses & decoration

Romantic Cruise honeymoon
with special decoration & wedding dresses

Whitsundays Romantic Cruise

Location: MV Fantasea Ammari, Whitsundays

» 3 or 4 nights aboard MV Fantasea Ammari
» Exciting and versatile on board activities including pool
» Access to Fantasea Reefworld on the Great Barrier Reef
» Visit world famous Whitehaven Beach
» All meals on board including morning and afternoon teas
» Use of snorkelling equipment
» Kayaks available
» Gymnasium equipment
» Return transfers to and from MV Fantasea Ammari and Whitsunday Island Resorts and Shute Harbour on board Fantasea transfer vessels

Four nights on MV Fantasea Ammari
You´ll notice it the moment you step on deck. Something in the air. A heady cocktail that promises a rare combination - cruising one of the seven natural wonders of the world on a ship that breathes elegance.

Your first night
It begins with your cruise on the MV Fantasea Ammari, your luxurious home for the next four wonderful nights. A boutique cruise with only 64 guests. This is about quality. After welcome drinks on deck we cast off. Setting sail, it´s time to relax as we cruise the Whitsunday Passage past the same islands Captain Cook first admired some 240 years ago. Soon we reach our first destination - the stunning coves and beaches that make Daydream Island exactly what the name promises. From Daydream Island we set off once again, this time towards your first night anchorage.

Night falls
The lights of the Whitsunday islands sparkle against a darkening sky. Sounds of the sea and the aromas created by our Master Chef mingle in the calm night air. A cool evening breeze and glass of champagne tantalise your senses as dinner is served. The night is young. Sit back. Relax.

Discover the reef
For the next few days we reveal what is so great about the Great Barrier Reef. Swimming, snorkelling and diving the world´s most beautiful underwater haven. As a Fantasea guest you have exclusive access to Reefworld, our very own floating island from which you spend a morning exploring the Reef.

Whitehaven - One day in heaven
From the Reef, we cruise to our overnight anchorage off Whitehaven Beach, one of the Whitsunday´s world famous icons where you can relax an enjoy the white silica sand and crystal clear water of this natural extravaganza.

Hayman in all its glory
After a sumptuous breakfast, we cruise to another of Whitsundays´ award-winning islands, Hayman Island where we anchor for the night.

The day is spent visiting beautiful Blue Pearl Bay, one of the region´s magnificent snorkelling locations with amazing coral and marine life.

As the aromas of delicate tastes fill the air dinner is served and the night is spent dancing, singing or simply relaxing.

After breakfast in the morning, we spend some quality time at Black Island just off Hayman Island, locally known as Bali Hai. Great for snorkelling...

... then it´s off on a leisurely cruise to Hamilton Island to say goodbye to our 3 night cruise guests who will look with great envy when we cruise off in a southerly direction to our next Whitsunday destination, Lindeman Island.

Lindeman - A leisurely stay
Lindeman Island, once visited by Royalty, is the home of Club Med In Australia and has a beautiful golf course which has one of the most scenic backdrops in Australia.

The last night of our 4 night cruise is spent anchored off this beautiful Island. Experience the magnificent views at dusk Before sitting down to yet another delicious dinner followed by a fabulous last night of entertainment.

Superb Accommodation and Facilities
The 60-metre, 32-cabin MV Fantasea Ammari has begun offering pleasure cruising to the World Heritage Great Barrier Reef and the stunning Whitsunday islands.

Guests have a choice of three cabin decks which means passengers can be close to the water or close to the stars. The Lighthouse Deck is free from public areas and offers a higher level of guest privacy; the Coral Sea Deck has easy access to the Lounge Bar area; and the James Cook Deck contains reception, boutique, restaurant and swimming pool.

All of MV Fantasea Ammari´s cabins are fully carpeted and have en-suite facilities. Cabins feature double bed, a wardrobe with safety box, flat screen TV, luggage storage and fridge.

MV Fantasea Ammari also features a lounge bar with dance floor, sun-deck bar, day spa, salon, fitness area, boutique and pool bar. MV Fantasea Ammari´s cruising itinerary includes visits to icon destinations such as the Reefworld adventure platform at Hardy Reef and the silica sands of Whitehaven Beach as well as other dream locations.










Fine Dining
As the most luxurious cruise operator in the Whitsundays, we offer a sophisticated menu for every meal, and our wine list includes a brilliant Australian and international selection.

The Campbell family and the MV Fantasea Ammari Culinary Team want your meals with us to be nutritious and tasty, for an overall sensory mind and body experience. MV Fantasea Ammari menus all offer guests a broad variety, full of goodness, colour - and a real taste of the tropics.
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wedding dresses style

Wedding Dress Details

Size: Size 6 - 8

Colour: White Diamond

Fabric: Satin

Description:

One-piece, Strapless, corset gown with an asymmetrical wrap. This delustered satin gown is embellished with embroidery, Swarovski crystals and bugle beads. Hoop included. Dress has been dry cleaned and in condition as if just bought from the shop.


Contact Details

Name: Katrina

Location: Northgate, Queensland

Phone: Submit An Enquiry

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Wedding Dress Details

Size: Size 10

Colour: Ivory

Fabric: Silk

Description:

The jacket is removable and the dress is hand-made in Ivory duchess silk (the dress maker used a Vogue pattern). It has a tight bodice (with boning) and fuller skirt with train. Felt like a genuine princess. The dress has been dry cleaned and boxed.
















Contact Details

Name: Kristina

Location: GREENSLOPES, Queensland

Phone: 0421191492

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decorations

personalized designer labels
exclusive to beau-coup wedding favors

The best favors are the ones that represent the giver's taste and style. Often, the way to demonstrate your personal flair is through the packaging of your favors and gifts. Whether the goal is to coordinate your wedding favors with the overall theme of your event or to infuse your gifts with personality and pizzazz, our exclusive line of custom designer labels will ensure that your favors not only wow your guests, but make a lasting impression.

Our designer labels are self-adhesive, mini works of art created with class, sophistication and a bit of playfulness in mind. With 20 designs, 5 shapes and dozens of colors to choose from (see all available designs, shapes and colors below), it's a difficult decision but we're confident that there is something perfect for every box, bag, jar and tin. Labels are custom printed with your names, date and/or a special message to your guests.

We also offer a matching line of exclusive personalized mint tins and personalized lip butters to coordinate with our exclusive collection of designer labels. Some matching designs also available in our personalized travel candle tins.

To order, please begin by

1. selecting a design (pictured below)
2. click on the design in the shape that you would like to order
3. choose a color in the pop up window that appears
4. note the character limits for each unique design and enter text accordingly (any text exceeding the character limits given may result in print that is difficult to read)

No standard or default text is printed, all text is custom. Please feel free to contact us with special requests at 877-988-2328. Also check out personalized wedding labels for a softer look.

All orders ship from our California distribution center in 4-6 business days. Orders can ship within 48 hours for rush fee of $10. Lead time does not include shipping transit time.

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custom label bottled water - wedding designs

Give your big day a mark of distinction with your own personal brand of bottled water for your guests. The added touch of personalized bottled water on your wedding day lends a certain cachet to an already auspicious event. Make an impression on your guests with your attention to detail. Choose from our designer wedding labels and personalize with a message of your own. Perfect for weddings, cocktail receptions, engagement parties and outdoor wedding festivities.

We bottle only pure spring water from the Pacific coastal range. Our water is chlorine and sodium free and contains natural minerals so you’re sure to have only great tasting water. We offer 3 sizes: 8 oz, 12 oz and 16.9 oz. for flexibility. 8 oz. bottles measure 5.5” H and 2.25” D. 12 oz. bottles measure 7.25” H and 2.25” D. 16.9 oz. bottles measure 8” H and 2.375” D.

With 22 elegant designs to choose from, you will find the perfect look for your special event. Labels are tear-resistant and printed with photo image quality in high-end matte finish. For personalized water bottle orders, we ship everything assembled and ready to go.

You may also purchase “labels only” by the sheet to adhere to your own bottled water. This is a popular option for destination weddings or overseas weddings. Each sheet includes 10 personalized labels. Our printed labels feature peel-away strips for easy application. Labels are available in two sizes: small labels measure 2” H x 7.5” L and large labels measure 2.125” H x 8.062” L.

To submit a logo or photo for "picture frame" design (see below), please email your camera ready image in .jpg format to photos@beau-coup.com after you’ve completed your online order and reference your order number in the subject line of the email. Images need to be at least 300 dpi.

Custom designs are also available. To create your own label design, please call us at 877-988-2328 or email info@beau-coup.com. Custom artwork is subject to a $50 artwork fee.

Please allow 5 business days for your bottled water order to ship. Rush service is available for $30 and your order will ship in 2 business days. For labels only, please allow 3 business days for processing. A rush service is available for $15 and your order will ship in 48 hours. Lead time does not include transit time.

Unfortunately, we are unable to ship water bottles internationally. For international orders, please consider our "labels only" option.

Our personalized bottled water is also available for other occasions:

corporate | baby shower | religious | birthday | holiday

$34.80 per case of 24 8 oz. bottles, personalized
$40.80 per case of 24 12 oz. bottles, personalized
$46.80 per case of 24 16.9 oz. bottles, personalized
$10.00 per sheet of 10 labels, minimum order of 2 sheets

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LUXURY WEDDING with EXCLUSIVE HONEYMOON

LUXURY WEDDING with EXCLUSIVE HONEYMOON

AMAZING DECORATION & WEDDING DRESSES

Gold Coast Luxury at the Sheraton Mirage

Location: Sheraton Mirage, Gold Coast

From $2499 per couple SAVE UP TO $1000
» 5 nights accommodation in a Palm or Lagoon Room
» Buffet breakfast in Terraces Restaurant daily
» Sparkling wine on arrival
» Chef´s Table Seafood Buffet Lunch for two people in Terraces Restaurant
» Degustation menu for two people in Horizons Fine Dining Restaurant
» Chef´s Table Seafood Buffet Dinner for two people in Terraces Restaurant

Five Nights at the Sheraton Mirage Resort and Spa Gold Coast
Treat yourself at Queensland´s largest five-star resort spa!

Surrounded by lush tropical gardens and sparkling blue lagoons, Sheraton Mirage Resort and Spa Gold Coast is a place where memories are made. Step from your room onto pristine white sands and dive into the rolling surf of the Pacific Ocean. An oasis of rare beauty, we are the Gold Coast´s only five-star resort located right on the beach.

Enjoy views of the abundant gardens, the surrounding lagoons, or the rolling surf from your beautiful guest room or private villa. Friendly, five-star service will help you relax and reconnect.

Palm or Lagoon Room

Lagoon Rooms
Located on the ground floor of the Resort, Lagoon rooms feature magnificent views of the Mirage Lagoons, with king or double beds, sitting areas plus marble bathrooms with bath and shower. Recently refurbished with contemporary décor, the stunning position right on the lagoon ensures all rooms have a private outdoor terrace area.

Palm Rooms
Located on the ground floor only of the Resort, these rooms feature spacious private, grassy courtyards and are just metres from the beach. The recently refurbished Palm Rooms feature contemporay décor, king or double/double beds, sitting area plus marble bathrooms with bath and shower.

Resort Facilities
Treat yourself at Queensland´s largest five-star resort spa, The Golden Door Spa & Health Club at Mirage Resort. Select from 12 wet and dry treatment rooms or simply unwind in the relaxation lounge while sipping Golden Door herbal tea. If you are feeling a bit more energetic, enjoy a workout in our state-of-the-art, air-conditioned gymnasium and exercise room. Swim the length of our outdoor 25-metre lap pool. Or play a match on one of four tennis courts, two of which are floodlit.

Full Buffet Breakfasts daily at Terraces Resrtaurant
Terraces serves up great Continental and Full Breakfast Buffets daily.

Chefs Table Seafood Buffet Lunch
Enjoy a superb seafood buffet for lunch in Terraces Restaurant. A delicious and Fresh Buffet that is a Gold Coast favourite for visitors, guests and locals alike! For those of you who prefer something from land, the buffet also offers an excellent and varies selection of Anti Pasto and Hot Selections










Degustation menu for two people in Horizons Fine Dining Restaurant
Sitting next to fully-glassed walls, where you can watch a small family of white swans swimming around in the huge pond outside, enjoy Horizons Fine Degustation menu: a treat for the senses and an unforgettable experience.

Chefs Table Seafood Buffer Dinner for two people in Terraces Restaurant Restaurant
Savour a selection of culinary delights prepared by the Hotel’s gold medal award winning chefs.... then indulge and enjoy the most irresistible, mouthwatering sweets ever seen! The Gold Coast´s most extensive Shef´s Table Buffet!










Cold Selections
Fresh succulent Seafood - Queensland King Prawns, Crabs in season Fresh Oysters, Tasmanian Smoked Salmon, Marinated Mussels, Sushi, Sashimi and Home Smoked Seafood.

Anti Pasto Selection
Italian Sausages, Pepper crusted Pink Roast Beef, Prosciutto or Black Forest Ham, Champagne Ham, Pate & Terrines, Marinated Roasted Vegetables, Caesar Salad, Selection of tossed Salads, Semi Dried Tomatoes, Marinated Olives, Fetta, Bocconcini, Condiments & Dressings.

Hot Selections
Two Soup Kettles, Selection of Roasts with Potatoes & Roasted Root Vegetables, Kebabs, Ragouts & Curries, Jasmine Rice, Steamed Vegetables, Chilli Crab, Frito Misto of Seafood, freshly baked Oysters Mornay & Kilpatrick, Grilled Fish in Season, Seafood Brochettes.

A Selection of Rolls & Breads from our Bakehouse, Cheeseboard with Fruit, Assorted Nuts & Crackers Coffee, Tea or Hot Chocolate.

Sumptuous Dessert Buffet
A mouthwatering array of sweets and delights fills the free-standing Dessert Buffet and includes: International Selection of Gateaux, Tropical Fruit Slices and Tartlets, Summer Desserts and Puddings, Selection of Ice Creams.

An unforgettable five star Romance
The Sheraton Mirage Resort and Spa Gold Coast is conveniently located 35 minutes from the Gold Coast International Airport and approximately 55 minutes from Brisbane International Airport. We are also just minutes away from Sea World and one of the Gold Coast´s most renowned restaurant precincts, Tedder Avenue at Main Beach.

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metal wedding cake toppers

Couples with a flair for the dramatic and a sense of style who yearn for something different on their wedding day need look no further. This line of fantastically original wedding cake toppers is just the inspiration you need. Turn your wedding cake into something worthy of being the center of attention and a marvelous conversation piece.

Choose from designs that range from a hip bride and groom to a Henna inspired heart. Each piece features a scratch resistant chrome plated finish with a clean cut edge and measures 1/16" thick. Each is polished on both sides. Heights vary between 7 and 5 inches depending on design. Please see captions below for measurements. Hip bride & groom and dancing bride & groom designs are each adorned with a single Swarovski crystal.

A high quality cake topper may be passed down from generation to generation, wedding to wedding and serve as an heirloom or keepsake from your big day. For more unique, show-stopping cake toppers, check out our Swarovski crystal monogram wedding cake toppers and crystal heart cake toppers.

Please allow 2 weeks for this special order item to ship. Lead time does not include transit time


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personalized tuxedo and wedding gown favor boxes

Dress up a banquet table with these snazzy favor boxes in the shapes of tuxedos and gowns. Fill them with our silver jordan almonds or another classy candy for a simple and elegant favor. These favor boxes can be foil-printed with your names and date of your event in your choice of print color. Tie a ribbon in the color of your reception around the gown box for a personal touch (ribbon is not included). Boxes are shipped flat and come in sets of 50. Tuxedo box measures 2"W x 1.25"D x 4" H. Gown box measures 2.6"W x 1.5"D x 3.75"H. Usually ships in 2-3 business days. Does not include shipping transit time.


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silver wedding bells

Pucker up your pout! Guests won’t be able to resist ringing these shiny silver plated wedding bell favors to keep the newlyweds kissing all night long. Perfect for weddings, engagement parties and even New Year’s celebrations.

Sleek, polished silver and a clean design make these silver bells a truly beautiful addition to any wedding; they can even double as table decorations. Each silver-plated bell base measures approximately 1” in diameter x 2 3/4” in height.

Ring in the fun with bell-themed wedding decorations. Our wedding bell place card holders and wedding bells mint tins keep your celebration in tune!

Usually ships from our warehouse in 1-3 business days. Lead time does not include transit time.

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Wedding Dress Details

Size: Size 8 - 10

Colour: white

Fabric: polyester

Description:
A stunning Alfred Angelo one piece gown. It has a corset lace up back which is great for having it fit just right. The bodice has embroidery, sequins and crystal beads. There is also beading around the bottom half giving this dress a elegant look. The train is a semi-cathedral length, or about 6 feet from the waistline. This dress has been professionally dry cleaned.

















Contact Details
Name: Niomi
Location: Reedy Creek, Queensland
Phone: 0421242195 55936317


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Wedding Dress Details

Size: Size 8

Colour: ivory

Fabric: ruched organza with embellished laces

Description:
A pronovias Oleaje! I have only worn this dress for 2 hours for the ceremony and photo taking so it's hardly used. Beautiful dress as you can see, fits well and is very slimming, especially with the laces around the tummy area which is very forgiving. It really shows off a good hour-glass shape. I am usually a size 8 on top, size 8-10 bottom.










Contact Details

Name: Melissa
Location: Brisbane, Queensland
Phone: 0402459154 07-32178828



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Wedding Dress Details

Size: Size 8 - 10

Colour: Champany Lace over Ivory

Fabric: Lace

Description:
Elegant Couture gown designed by up coming new designer Felicia Gene Designs. This gorgeous one-piece lace gown with button & loop closure, cross-over sweetheart neckline and off-the-shoulder sleeves inspires true romance. The satin band with bow creates an eye-catching empire accent while the fitted silhouette extends into an A-line skirt and is finished with an elegant chapel train with matching cascading veil with lace scalloped hem.










Contact Details

Name: Olivia
Location: Pacific pines, Queensland
Phone: 07 5573 3906 0448 394 348


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